Last night someone inferred that I’m a sexual predator.

I’m an Asian female, 5’3’, 35 years old, married and I identify as a lesbian. Yesterday I attended a holiday party that started at noon. I’ve attended many of these over the years and alcohol is the highlight of the event for most. Myself, I don’t usually drink at these things because I can’t hold…

Serial Dater Season 1

Lots has happened in the last 8-10 months! Here’s a nutshell: We started a company! #entrepreneurshit It’s called “Don’t Tell Me What To Do Productions Inc.” or “D Productions Inc.” for short. Go ahead, you can make fun of the D… go on,  I’ve already done it. #iwin More importantly and definitely more exciting-ly (is…

Shaken

She sees me Like she sees right through me She crosses the room With a glass in her hand She touches me Like a surge that rushes through me My ground falters What is this mystery I never came to look for you I never wanted to shake my insecurities I didn’t come to look…

Spicy Mixed Veg & Tofu Udon Stir-fry

Time: 30-45min   |  Serves 2 generous portions Ingredients: 1 1/2 Udon Bars + water to boil Bok Choy (4-5 Baby or 1Bbig) – strips Napa (1 bunch or 6 leaves) – strips 1 Carrot – Julianned 4 Mushrooms – sliced 1/3 Firm Tofu (or 2×3 inches) – cubed small 1/2 Yellow Onion – small…

Stop and think

I can’t say that life is terrible at the moment. I can’t say that life is how I hope it could be either. When there’s so much more happening in the world today that is devastating and negatively life-altering, I can’t compare my worries to any of that. But I am human. At the core,…

Change

Change. It’s a terrifying notion to many. Perhaps conforting to some. To me, change is a necessity. My life’s been a whirlwind of change since I turned 19. Though sheltered and protected under the roof of a conservative asian household, I set my life out to do everything they didn’t want me to. Acting. There…

Just another morning rant

Ok… Is it just the generation that just finished high school/college… (assuming they are the generation Z)… that speak with “like” as a punctuation and/or an accent in every sentence or between every other word? (I’m not putting everyone in the same basket but I am referring to quite the majority – or at least…

Refreshing Greens

Ingredients: 1/2 cucumber 4 stalks of celery 1 handful of spinach 1 green apple 2 Anjou pears Serves 2. Green yummy goodness. The end.

Sago Coconut Pudding with Fruit Compote

  Serves 4. Tapioca/Sago Pudding Ingredients: 1/2 cup sago 1 cup almond milk 1/2 cup coconut milk 2 1/2 tbsp honey or agave nectar 1 tsp vanilla extract 1/4 tsp salt 1 tsp cornstarch and water mixed in Fruit Compote Ingredients: 1 cup frozen peaches, strawberries and mango 1 1/2 tbsp sugar 1/4 cup mango…